Stop Believing in Your Dreams!

Some of us may dream and their dream may come true which may result in believing in their dreams!

This is not true or right and indeed it can be destructive rather than constructive. Believing in something which can impact your thoughts, actions and feelings without having you control over it.

What we dream 99% is the result of our own thoughts and feelings not necessarily foreseeing the future.

We should take responsibility for our every day of our life rather than seeing it as a dream come true.

Stop believing in the dreams; they're just the result of your own thoughts, worries and feelings. Shape your life with your own hands and always seek what good thing can be done now.

If you saw a bad dream, don't think it's an anticipation of future; just pray for it, forget it and focus on what possible positive actions you can take now.

I went through the cycle of believing in my dreams that they always come true and then came out when realized that I am the one who shapes my destiny with my actions rather than my life has to happen according to my dream; I've paid a very heavy price to learn this lesson that won't be forgotten.

Shape your life with your own actions; live by design!

Let Your Brain Brainstorm Ideas Freely

Our brains have powers more than we know and are used to it.

We're all creative but not everyone use their creativity.

Just let it brainstorm ideas quickly and limitlessly and you'll be surprised how creative you can be.

Just let your brain flow without concerning about boundaries and limitations.

Practice Daily Brainstorming until it becomes part of your character and it helps making decision what to action next.

Top Good Habits for Work and Life

Always Smile, Feel good and Enjoy

• Simple but so powerful
• Smile even when walking down the street, when you're at home or leave home, when working with computer, when talking with others, when looking at yourself in the mirror
• It makes you and people around you feel good
• It takes far fewer muscles to smile than to frown

Look for the Best

• Look for the best in every situation
• Look for the good in people and what they do.
• Be less critical and more tolerant about people.

Compliment Others

• It’s a great and highly valuable habit
• The greatest human desire is to be appreciated.
• Let your compliments be genuine

Treat Everyone as Important

• Hand out admiration and respect for people; whatever we hand out, we get back.
• The most important person for every person is himself; so treat everyone as important.

Believe In Your Success

• Act and believe as though success is inevitable.
• Picture success in your mind.

Be Always Eager to Learn

• There are always good things to learn from people, books, etc.

Be Humble to See and Accept Your Faults And Be Self-Assured!

• You can't correct your mistakes if you're not humble enough to see them honestly.

Be Action Oriented

• Set deadlines for your actions, don't wait too long.
• Action is Power but be aware it can be both constructive and destructive.
• Know when you should act and when you should just ignore or wait.

Stop Thinking About Why, Focus On What Can Ben Done Now!

Our mind is very strange, it can think and think and think and think deep in reasons why events happen or why life is the way it is.

This is not always necessary, healthy or helpful and can waste time without gaining much. At these times, when you realize, best is to stop thinking why and start taking action, do something about it now!

If something happens to you that has hurt you, don't waste your time loop through the mind trap of why and why and why but just focus on what is the best and right thing to do now.

Of course there must be a balance, there are times you should ponder about reasons and there are times you should focus on taking action without being too much worried about reasons for events.

The Karmic Law

This law simply states, what you put out, express and sow in the world by words, thoughts, beliefs and/or actions, will return to you in the same manner it was given, you will reap them and they will be reflected back to you.

This is Newton's Third Law of Motion: "For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction."

You Reap What You Sow.

Action:

Just being aware that you reap what you sow, will encourage you to choose more wisely what you sow by your words, thoughts, beliefs and actions.

There Are Always Consequences

No matter you take action or inaction, there are always consequences. In other words, you can't stop consequences and the world don't wait until you take an action. The world continuously produces consequences.

What you can do though is to shape the consequences by taking the appropriate action quickly.

Bring Thyself Unto Account Each Day

Successful people are those who bring themselves unto account each day. They review what they did. What didn't go that well and what they could do differently.

This can be applied to education, business, relationships and everything we're involved with.

We're never perfect although we should aim for perfection and continuously correct ourselves towards perfection. This means we should be humble enough to see our own mistakes/weaknesses and strengths with a positive attitude and learn from those experiences quickly so that those experiences support our ongoing future success.

Action Plan:

Once of the best ways to support this is to bring ourselves unto account each day by completing a personal learning experience table with the following columns:

Column 1: Issue / Mistake / What wasn't that great

Column 2: Lesson / Experience / What could I do differently? / How could I do it differently?

Completing this table daily or weekly ensures that you're always on the right track. You see your own mistakes humbly and learn from them quickly which means greater experience and higher rate of success for your future is guaranteed.

It's not about regretting about the past but it's about enhancing our experience by being a bit more thoughtful about our own behaviour, actions and words every day.

You can complete this table even for smallest issues; e.g. which way was longer to get to a destination, which travel ticket was better to be bought, which words shouldn't have been said and why, etc.